Saturday, 10 May 2008

Truth

I know I sometimes wish I had a partner to cuddle with and hang out with and be in a relationship with, but I have to say this too...

I love going to bed when I want, reading as late as I want and being able to sleep on both sides of the bed.

I also love waking up having grabbed my teddy bear at some point during the night and knowing I got good hugs from someone who loves me.

7 Comments:

Blogger Donald said...

Amen to that. Sometimes we underestimate the value of being alone.

Saturday, May 10, 2008 6:12:00 pm  
Blogger abstractjenn said...

Amen sistah...

Saturday, May 10, 2008 8:56:00 pm  
Blogger Victoria said...

Too true Donald...

: ) Jenn

Saturday, May 10, 2008 10:21:00 pm  
Blogger Jonathan said...

I'm guessing that if you asked any married person who told you the truth, they would whisper that if the idea of a f*ck buddy wasn't so shocking, they would never have thought about getting married.

I liked being single too. I like being married, but it doesn't mean I don't miss being single from time to time.

In a funny way, having children is another step further into the depths of "nothing you do is for yourself"...

Sunday, May 11, 2008 12:31:00 pm  
Blogger Victoria said...

Yeah, I hear ya :)

Sunday, May 11, 2008 3:49:00 pm  
Blogger coastalgirl said...

hey victoria, i love your blog.... i am just learning the single life, after about 15 years of long term relationships... I agree that a snuggly hotwater bottle is the best cuddle and i'm loving the whole bed to yourself thing... its the laughter and craziness i miss, the snuggles on the sofa and the routine of life... Apparently i have to start dating again... but bugger me, how daunting is that... I think i could win an award for flirting, but when do you broach the subject of whether they are single or not??? I think i need dating school lol!!! x

Friday, May 23, 2008 4:25:00 am  
Blogger Victoria said...

Well, thanks Coastal Girl :)
I hear ya on the missing of the snuggles and laughter and routine. Oooh, you're a good flirt? Maybe we can exchange techniques! You teach me how to flirt and I teach you.. er... um... hmmm.... I gotta figure out my best "single move"! ; )

Friday, May 23, 2008 5:38:00 pm  

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