Wednesday 20 May 2009

Crush

So I have a crush on someone. But it's not really a crush.

I mean, it is a crush, it's just that that it's really only a crush on what little I know of him.

If that makes sense.

Like, it's more like I have a crush on the *idea* of him than the actual reality of him since I don't really really know him.

Know what I mean?

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh Vic, you could have just told me :-)

Nah, I know what you mean. Sometimes I've purposefully not acted on a crush because I've liked the *idea* more, and I was afraid they'd turn out to be not as nice.

Does that make sense?

Laura said...

I have a problem with this. Happens to me way too often. It's always nice when reality measures up to the dream though :)

The Last Single Girl said...

I know exactly what you mean. I have a crush on this guy too but i don't know him very well either. It is the same sort of thing. I have a crush on what I know of him and what I think he will be like. Good Luck. Who knows maybe he will turn out to be as great as he is in you mind. We can only hope.

Victoria said...

Yeah Mark, that's totally it. It's almost not worth acting on it because the crush might just be better than the reality!

Laura, that would be nice :)

TLSG, we can certainly hope! Hope your crush turns out awesome! :)

dilling said...

isn't that what a crush is all about?

Victoria said...

Maybe?

Yvonne said...

Does this have anything to do with the men and women can't be friends post? ;)

Victoria said...

Vaguely? ;)