Friday, 27 February 2009

Hypothetically Speaking, Of Course.

Why is it that sometimes you can see a guy around for a while, and think he's pretty cute and then when you meet him in a different context and find out that he's more than just the guy you see around every once in a while, but he's actually a guy who does something you believe in and is making a positive difference in the world, why is it that you, at that moment, decide he's going to be your husband (even though, really you don't know *him*, you just know what he does, but that's almost enough) and then find out that he's got a girlfriend but somehow you feel like that's only a bump in the road because why else would the Universe have put this guy in your path and you just know that the two of you are meant to be with each other and maybe you're right?

16 Comments:

Anonymous Dominic said...

Something vaguely similar has happened to me - with some noticeable differences, like it being a girl not a guy :)

There's something deeply wrong about meeting your ideal match and then getting hit with all the reasons why it's never going to happen.

The only conclusion I can come to is that there IS a God, and he hates people.

Friday, February 27, 2009 7:59:00 am  
Blogger High-heel gal said...

HA! This always happens. The perfect ones are usually taken. I wonder if guys ever feel the same way when WE have a boyfriend or are married?!

Friday, February 27, 2009 9:05:00 am  
Blogger lexiloo said...

i know what you mean. i think that there are many people in this world that are our soul mates, some we may never meet and some we meet yet never have the chance to date or marry.

Friday, February 27, 2009 1:52:00 pm  
Blogger Laura said...

Oh, my God, that is *so* how I feel right now, and I CAN'T BLOG ABOUT IT because the guy reads my damn blog. Haha.

Friday, February 27, 2009 2:31:00 pm  
Blogger Victoria said...

Dominic, good to know it's not just a girl thing :)

HHG, I bet for SURE there are guys who see that we're married or taken and have the same thought!

Lexi, funny that, huh?

Laura, can't blog about it? Oh noes!

Friday, February 27, 2009 7:05:00 pm  
OpenID midorimemoirs said...

Been there too. :)

Perfectly put into words what was on my mind!

Friday, February 27, 2009 7:06:00 pm  
Blogger Victoria said...

:)

Friday, February 27, 2009 8:22:00 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"Hypothetically" speaking, eh? Do tell! Whom might this gentleman have been? I am dying to know!

Friday, February 27, 2009 10:25:00 pm  
Anonymous movin' down the road said...

sounds good to me!

Saturday, February 28, 2009 4:54:00 am  
Blogger Victoria said...

Anonymous, I have no idea what you're talking about! It's... all... um... just hypothetical! (Runs away to hide) ;)

MDTR, good enough for me too! heh

Saturday, February 28, 2009 9:54:00 am  
Anonymous Single Girl said...

Because sometimes the universe SUCKS! :)

Sunday, March 01, 2009 11:45:00 am  
Blogger Victoria said...

LOL

Sunday, March 01, 2009 11:46:00 am  
Blogger Jonathan said...

That post just reminded me totally what it was like to be single again.

Sunday, March 01, 2009 2:22:00 pm  
Blogger Victoria said...

Heh

Sunday, March 01, 2009 3:39:00 pm  
Blogger Wednesday said...

aww. :] this is too idealistic but i believe that if you're meant to be, you're meant to be. and yes, i agree. what if the girlfriend is just a bump along the way?

don't give up on the guy!

although this comment may be too late. :]

*i'm sorry, i've been backreading your blog. i enjoy it. :]

Friday, August 07, 2009 8:23:00 am  
Blogger Victoria said...

Backreading new blogs is fun! But, uh, yeah, your comment may be too late! lol

Friday, August 07, 2009 4:11:00 pm  

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