Monday 14 May 2012

Bummed

I'm genuinely bummed that Steve isn't interested in getting to know me.

I'd really hoped that we would get along (we did) and that we would then see each other again and that we'd eventually end up in a relationship.

But it's been a couple of weeks and he's had ample opportunity to ask about me or to ask for my number or contact information and he hasn't.

Which speaks loud and clear.

He's not interested.

Which is a bummer and disappointing and leaves me a little sad and more than a little bit lost as to what I'm supposed to do now.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think you re right... unfortunately...

Dateafrenchman said...

That really sucks. Just don't take it personally. You don't know what he's thinking. Just be happy that you were yourself and had a good evening. Just because two people get on all right doesn't mean that a relationship will follow. Although there is obviously somewhere in between - like getting to know one another. But again, you don't know what he's thinking...

Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear this. Take from this that you can be yourself and meet people and have good conversation...unfortuately not all contacts will turn into relationships, be they platonic or romantic.

Overlaying the legal stuff, I can understand why you're struggling. I hope the legal stuff is resolved favourably and quickly for you.

Not sure if you've heard...Spirit of the West is playing on the island (Comox I think) in early August. They're playing in TO in July and my middle daughter and I might go. Maybe the BC concert could be something to look forward to?

- Elliott

Katherine said...

Sorry. It is always like that for me. And then the guys I cannot wait to get away from don't give up.

Victoria said...

I'm pretty sure I am Anon....

It does suck Datea, but yes, I'll try not to take it personally, you're right.

Thanks Elliott :) (and I'll look into the show!)

Well that's no fun Katherine!

Just a Girl said...

So I went out with this guy. And it was great. And at the end of the date he said (and I quote here) "That was really great. I had an awesome time and I would really like to see you again." Guess when I heard back from him again? Never. Which means he sucks for saying that! So why are my feelings so hurt...?

Victoria said...

Ugh Candy, that's awful!

And I wish I could tell you why your feelings are so hurt cuz then they'd stop being hurt... but it sucks. *hugs* I'm sorry :(