Friday, 8 March 2013

Vince, Vince, Vince

I had another, uncomfortable-making text conversation with Vince last week.

He apologized the next day, said there was no excuse, but still...

He asked me if I'd be more comfortable with him coming over if Jay wasn't coming home soon.

I told him it made no difference to me.

He asked if we couldn't pick the conversation back up about ... what we talked about. 

I told him no.

He said he wasn't wanting to act on it, just talk about it like we had, like two adults.

I told him no.  It wasn't fair to his marriage.

He said things aren't always black and white.  But that he'd drop it, sorry.

I think, honestly, I'll feel more comfortable when Jay is in town.  Not that it'll make any difference to me, but maybe it'll make a mental difference to Vince?

I don't know.  Like I said, he apologized for it the next day, but I feel it was inappropriate for him to bring it back up at all, and I really wish he'd deal with whatever is or isn't going on in his own relationship.

It makes me sad that they seem to be so unhappy but don't seem to be doing anything about it.

Or at least that's how he presents things.

And I just listen and nod and tell him I think he should talk to his wife.

And it's what I'll keep saying until he listens.

Shrug.

2 Comments:

Anonymous narami said...

He's not acting on it, he just wants to talk about it, like adults.

But adults don't talk about things that have already been settled. Even more when it will more likely bring things closer to a happening that is being prevented.

This is why I NEVER talk to an ex. EVER. Nothing good comes out of it.

Friday, March 08, 2013 3:13:00 pm  
Blogger Victoria said...

Fair enough Narami

Friday, March 08, 2013 6:23:00 pm  

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