Thursday, 16 August 2007

Foresight 20/20?

After the first month or so with Smith, I heard this song and somehow it became an anthem for me about the relationship.

Updated to add: OK, let's try a full version of the song hmmmm? (Grumble at the internets and all its trickeries)

Further updated to add: Hmmmm... go here to hear it in full. I gotta check some stuff out. 30 second clips are annoying.

Maybe it was the chorus; "we're kidding ourselves"?

Also, I was tracking back, following all the Smith links and I came to this.

Interesting, no?

(But, wait. Don't say anything too mean, I'm feeling rather chipper today.)

(Well, not that you're ever mean, but still.)


Blogger McGone said...

Bad luck for you, lady. Today? I decided to be mean.

Just kidding.

Thursday, August 16, 2007 4:02:00 pm  
Blogger Victoria said...

Oh silly McGonigle... you couldn't be mean if you tried! ; )

Thursday, August 16, 2007 5:40:00 pm  
Blogger Delton said...

How interesting to read that old post. Makes me want to find the time to go digging through your archives to see what other gems I can find.

Thursday, August 16, 2007 7:46:00 pm  
Blogger Tyler Durden said...

Cool song...
I hope you can heal and move on soon. So here is what my therapist told me (yes, I have a therapist, there is a reason why my blog is called brainstudy). I could NOT STOP thinking about MS. It was driving me freaking insane. He told me to allow me only 10 minutes a day to think about her. 10 minutes to cry, look at pictures, listen to music that reminded me of her, whatever. The rest of the day I would have to push those thoughts away. That (and alcohol, prescription depression medicine, sedatives and having sex with a bunch of chicks) really helped.
You may not want to hear advise and I understand. I just wish I could help you feel better.... I know how badly it sucks to be where you are. Feel free to write about Smith all you want. I know it helps...

Thursday, August 16, 2007 7:58:00 pm  
Blogger Victoria said...

Me too Delton. I mean, with the finding time to dig through and re-read. It's always interesting to go through archives!

Thursday, August 16, 2007 10:12:00 pm  
Blogger Victoria said...

Tyler, I'm hoping my healing keeps on....going? Yeah. I think, by the way, that everyone could benefit from talking to a third party, be it a therapist or whatnot. I think that's healthy and wish more people did it. So, good for you. It's a good idea to give yourself that 10 minute thing. I'm not sure I'm ready for that yet, but...yeah, totally something to think about, thanks. And yep, I can imagine how hard it would/will be to push away the thoughts the rest of the time. I'm working on it : )
Thanks for the advice. I guess somewhere inside I know I won't be like this forever.

Thursday, August 16, 2007 10:17:00 pm  

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