Well that whole "I'll see what's on the dating site" idea really backfired on me.
I thought I'd move onwards and upwards from Jay, but instead I found a guy who just wanted a hookup, and another nice guy who is a part-time smoker and yet another guy who never returned my messages after I shared my photo with him.
And after my crying meltdown all I wanted to do was call Jay and have him make me feel better.
Because I would feel better, for a bit if I talked to him, connected with him.
And then I'd be no further ahead, but I also wouldn't be quite so sad and hurt.
Don't want to get stuck in "I'll be single forever" self-pity, but man... it's kind of not hard to feel that way right now.
Everything feels pretty sucky right now and that's no way to feel.
At all.
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Everyone has their own opinion on dating sites, of course, but I like online dating and have had the most luck with plenty of fish in particular. I try to stay positive, remembering that it is a numbers game. Plus, there's the case of "the grass is always greener" when men have so many potential options. I rarely meet men in person that I date, so most of my dates are from online activity. With that being said, 90% of them are one date's. There's just no chemistry with most of them. Don't give up!
As far as Jay, I'll keep it positive but you have to let him go. I have a policy of never contacting (or responding to) a former boyfriend once we have broken up. It's like pulling off the band-aid real slowly....
I won't give up... just sometimes want to! ;)
And, yes... band-aids... I hear you :)
I use a site called tastebuds.fm. It links up your last.fm profile, or you can manually input artists/songs you like. It then matches you with others based on music taste and location :)
Everyone seems more friendly on there than the straight up dating sites. And it gives you something to start off with if you're both into similar music.
Anyway, just a thought, it'll be nowhere near as popular as something like match.com, so I've no idea if there's anyone registered from Victoria yet ^^
In any case, I'm hoping you come across a nice caring funny guy soon.
That sounds so cool! I'll check it out :)
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